Tuesday 4 Meme- Sandwiches and Housewifery

Sandwiches and Housewifery

Welcome to Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4!
November 3rd is both national sandwich day and national housewife's day.
In the 1950s working married women outnumbered working single women , In a US population of a little over 161 million, over 9 million married women worked, while only 5 million single women had jobs.
The Dagwood sandwich based on the Chic Young comic
" Dagwood", became very popular and men made them for themselves, the bigger the better.


Dagwood made his own sandwiches!

1. What is your favorite sandwich ? I like the Club Sandwich

2. Do you have a favorite Sandwich shop? We all know that soup and a sandwich is a great lunch but do you ever eat sandwiches for breakfast or supper?  I like a place called Firehouse Subs.  The sandwich I like is called the Hook and Ladder

3. Growing up did your mother , grandmother, aunts have a job as well as being a housekeeper?  My Granie did not work at an out of the home job, she was a homemaker.  My mom was an accountant for a theme park, one aunt worked as a postal carrier, another aunt worked for an oil company, another aunt was a teacher. 


4. According to the United Nations, unpaid domestic labor is the number one most important driver of the entire global economy.
78% of women shoulder all the domestic and child caring labor as well as holding down full or part time jobs. Without women the global economy would fail.
Did you juggle a family and a job ?  Yes and I went to college too when Josh was in 1st grade until 4th grade.  I worked full time as a teacher and went to college to get certified and take state licensing as well as maintaining the house.  It was hard, but worth it.

Sunday Stealing – Just Another Meme

 

Sunday Stealing – Just Another Meme

                                        


Another Sunday, Another Meme

1. Do you have a business card? If yes, what's your job title?  no

2. What day of the week were you born?  Wednesday

3. What vegetable do you refuse to eat?  Brussel Sprouts.  I have found ways to eat a lot of the other ones like beets, spinach, okra, etc and I love those.

4. How many times have you stayed overnight in the hospital?  twice, one for getting my tonsils and adenoids removed and the other when I had Josh.

5. Do you have more piercings or tattoos? piercings, I have zero tattoos

6. Do you like to shop?  sometimes.

7. How much cash is in your wallet right now?  not sure, probably around $45

8. Let's play MASH: Do you live in a mansion, apartment, shack, or house? House

9. Where are you in the family birth order (oldest, middle child, youngest, or only child)?  Only child

10. When you were 5 years old, what did you call your parents?  I only remember calling them mom and dad.

Saturday 9- I've Written a Letter to Daddy

 

                                        

I've Written a Letter to Daddy

Saturday 9: I've Written a Letter to Daddy (1962)

Unfamiliar with this week's featured song? Hear it here.

 

1) This song is from Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, which was released on Halloween Day, 1962. Do you like scary movies?  If they aren't TOO scary.  I used to love them, but these days they give me nightmares.

 

2) The "Baby Jane" of the title is Baby Jane Hudson. Jane was a child star, singing and dancing in vaudeville. She was so popular that Baby Jane dolls sold well at her shows. Tell us about one of your favorite childhood toys.  Hands down it was Barbie and my Papa made me a Barbie doll house and made the furniture.  My Granie made the pillows and cushions, quilts, etc for the furniture out of material we had in our house and their house.  The carpet in the rooms was from our house.  My Granie also crocheted my Barbie some beautiful clothes.

 

3) Baby Jane's career hit the skids when she hit her teens and audiences no longer found her cute. Adolescence can be a tough time for many of us. Did you ever go through an awkward phase?  I am still awkward.

 

4) Meanwhile, Jane's older sister Blanche blossomed into a beauty and became a major movie actress. Her career was cut short when, at the height of her popularity, her back is broken in a car accident involving a drunken Jane. Most of the movie takes place in the mansion Blanche bought back when she was a star. Blanche is confined to a wheelchair and completely dependent on Jane, who is bitter, jealous, and well, bonkers. Very bad things happen. Can you think of another movie where scary things happen in a big old house?  I tried to watch The Haunting of Hill House, but it scared me to death.  How about Rebecca?  I love that movie.

5) As a (crazy) older woman, Jane convinces herself she can relaunch her career and recapture the love of the public. She dresses like she did as a little girl and makes up her face to look like those Baby Jane dolls that were sold long ago at her childhood performances. Then she rehearses this week's song. The result is so memorable that now, more than 60 years later, you can still find "Baby Jane" Halloween costumes online. Tell us about a Halloween costume you really enjoyed wearing.  My mom made me a clown costume one year and I enjoyed wearing that with all of the makeup.

 

6) Which kind of spooky movie villain do you find scarier: supernatural monsters (Dracula, Wolfman, ghosts, etc.) or human monsters (Baby Jane, Michael Meyers from the Halloween franchise, etc.)?  Supernatural like in Haunting of Hill House.

Questions inspired by Halloween ....

7) Orange and black are the traditional Halloween colors, with orange representing the autumn harvest and black symbolizing all things scary and mysterious. Are you wearing either color as you answer these questions?  I have on black yoga pants.

8) Jack-o-lanterns originated in Ireland, though instead of pumpkins, they carved gourds. When Irish immigrants arrived in the US, they used pumpkins because they were more readily available. Did you decorate your home with a jack-o-lantern, or anything else, for Halloween?  no, I used to decorate for Halloween, but I do mostly fall now that Josh is older.

9) Think back to your trick-or-treating days. Which candy were you happiest to find your bag?  Anything chocolate, but I remember going through the candy and having a few pieces and I do not remember having anymore.  Maybe I did, but I wonder if my parents either hid it or ate it themselves and left a little for me.  I had a ton of candy.  Candy is horrible for kids.  I wouldn't blame them for not letting me have it.  I didn't miss it.

We had our Fall Harvest Costume party today at school.  Here is a picture of the team I work with.  This is Pre-K.  I am third from the left in the pink shirt and brown hair.

 

 

 

Sunday Stealing Is for Adults Only

 

Sunday Stealing Is for Adults Only

                                     


The Grown Up Meme

1. Do you have a college degree?  I have two.  I have a degree in Sociology with a minor in psychology and a degree in Early Childhood Education.  I completed about half of a masters in teaching, but I stopped.  I should have finished it. We really couldn't afford it at the time.  I could get one for free at my job now, but it isn't worth the time for me.  I am about 5 years from retirement.

2. What was the amount of your last electric bill?  It was around $200.

3. Do you have life insurance?  Yes, through my job and Karl's too.  I have life insurance for Josh also.

4. Do you check your cholesterol on (at least) an annual basis?  yes, my doctor checks all kinds of things.  That is why I get so worried every summer when I go see him.

5. Have you ever attended a high school reunion? no

6. Do you have a will or estate plan?  no, but we need to get that done.  My mom and dad did not take care of things and I had a mess when my mom had her stroke. I think everything is taken care of now.  I do not want to leave that for Josh to figure out.

7. Do you remember when MTV played music videos?  YES!  The stupidest thing they ever did was to start reality shows.  I loved MTV...the music videos.

8. Is there a bottle of wine in your refrigerator? no

9. Have you been divorced? no

10. When you were 16, did you play music on vinyl, cassette, or CDs? cassettes were around and making mix tapes when I was 16, but I also still had vinyl.

Saturday 9: Smoke Rings

 

Smoke Rings

Saturday 9: Smoke Rings (1933)

   

Unfamiliar with this week's song? Hear it here.

   

1) In this song, Donald Mills of the Mills Brothers encourages us to "puff, puff, puff" our cares away. When did you most recently smoke a cigarette?  I have never smoked.  My mom smoked and it grossed me out so much.  I never wanted to smoke and I never dated a smoker.  

 

2) In the 1930s, when this week's song was recorded, an estimated 40% of American adults smoked cigarettes. By the early 1960s, that number reached a high of 42%. According to the CDC, the percentage of adult smokers dropped to 11%. Do many of your friends and relatives smoke or vape?  My mom quit smoking when Josh was a baby.  None of my friends and family smoke.  Josh has a friend that vapes.

 

3) Donald was the youngest of the singing Mills Brothers, and he's the one who most often sang lead. That squares with popular birth order theory, which proposes that the youngest tends to enjoy being the center of attention, the middle child is the diplomat, and the oldest is the high-achiever. Think of your own family and the families of your friends. Do you think this theory holds true?  I think this is true of Karl's family (sisters).  Karl is the baby and enjoys attention.  I do not like attention.  I am an only child.

 

4) The Mills Brothers were one of the first famous singing brother acts. The Williams Brothers – which featured future TV star Andy Williams – followed in their footsteps. Can you think of another group of singing brothers?  Jackson's, Statler Brothers

 

5) In addition to recording hit records, The Mills Brothers were a staple on radio in the 1930s. They were among the first African American artists to host their own radio show and sang jingles for Standard Oil and Crisco. What commercial do you recall having seen, or heard, recently?  I am watching a T-Mobile commercial right now as I watch the World Series.

 

6) In 1933, when this week's song was popular, actor Robert Montgomery and his wife had a daughter they named Elizabeth. That little girl would become famous in the 1960s for her own TV show. Without looking it up, do you know what show Elizabeth Montgomery starred in?  Bewitched.  I loved that show!

 

7) Johnny Cash was also born in 1933. Do you have a favorite Johnny Cash song?  I love Johnny Cash.  I like Ring of Fire a lot.  

 
8) In 1933, five French airlines merged to form Air France. Think of the last time you were at an airport. Were you taking a flight or meeting a flight?  The last time I was at an airport...remember I do not fly...we were dropping off my Granie as she was getting on a flight to California to see her sister.

 

9) Random question: Your best friend just received a certificate for completing a car maintenance course at your community college. Would you let them work on your vehicle?  I guess it depends on who the friend is.

Saturday 9: Somewhere Over Laredo

 

Somewhere Over Laredo

Saturday 9: Somewhere Over Laredo (2025)

   

Unfamiliar with this week's song? Hear it here.

   

1) In this song, Laney Wilson namechecks Tito's Vodka. Is there a product you you are very brand loyal to? (It doesn't have to be liquor. Maybe you always reach for Dawn Dishwashing Liquid, even if another soap is on sale.)  Pepsi is a brand I am very loyal to.

 

2) The lyrics start with her in a window seat on a flight out of Houston. Do you prefer the window or the aisle?  I have never flown, but probably window.  I might freak out if I looked out the window, who knows.  We just always drive everywhere.

 

3) She's dreaming of rodeo nights with the guy she loves. If you could spend this evening with anyone at all, anywhere at all, where would you go and who would be with you?  Josh and I just got back from seeing my mom, so that would be the most important.

 

4) Lainey is from Baskin, LA, population 200. Do you prefer big cities or small towns?  small towns.  Our small town is having a big Halloween event at the school next door and it looks fun.  The kids are dressed up and got candy.  They had games and food and I saw a hayride!  I think I might mention this to the school I work at.  We do a trunk or treat, but a big night of fun would be so much fun for our little kids.

 

5) There's a Netflix documentary about Lainey called Keepin' Country Cool. What show have you recently streamed?  East of Eden - Netflix

6) This week's song borrows liberally from "Somewhere Over the Rainbow," so much so that "Rainbow" songwriters Harold Arlen and Yip Harburg receive credit. "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" is the most beloved song from The Wizard of Oz. Can you name another?  Follow the Yellow Brick Road came to mind.

 

7) In 2025, when this song was popular, more patients took advantage of telehealth than ever before. Have you ever had a virtual doctor visit?  Yes!  It was when I had covid and I did not want to make anyone sick.  I had already taken a covid test and it was positive.  I was not able to get any medicine, but I did get a doctor's note to miss work for a few days.  Josh got medicine when he had covid.

 
8) Also in 2025, smart home technology was integrated into more new home construction. Do you use smart devices to automate your lights, thermostat, or doorbell?  We have Blink cameras in different locations around our house.  Nothing else though.  My car has technology.

 

9) Random question – On which day are you happier: a) the day you take off on vacation or b) the day you return home from your trip? The day we take off.  I get sad when we have to come home.

The Cozy Pastime of Reading

 

The Cozy Pastime of Reading

 

1. Do you have a list of books you'd like to read?   Yes and it has over 100 books on it.  YIKES!

2. Where do you get ideas for books you want to read?  What kind of books catch your interest?  Goodreads and book groups I am in on facebook.  I enjoy thrillers, romance and historical fiction the most, but I like to read all genres of books.

3. What have you read lately?  The best book I read over the summer was The Calamity Club.  It is historical fiction by the author of The Help and I think everyone would enjoy it.  I have This Book Made Me Think of You on hold.  

I heard it is sad.

4. How do you find time to read and where do you make yourself cozy

and comfy to read?  I read mostly in the summer when I am off work or 

on holidays during the school year.  I like to read it quiet, so if Karl is home, it is hard.